Who's In the Court Room?
One of the concerns I hear from clients as we are preparing for both contested and uncontested divorce hearing is who is going to be in the court room with us? Family Courts, except for cases like child abuse and neglect matters, are open to the public and that means any one could be sitting in on your hearing.The reality is that in nearly every case you will only find a handful of people in the courtroom with you:
- Family Court Judge
- Court Report - the person who is recording everything that is being said in the courtroom to keep an exact record of what is happening in there.
- Deputy/Bailiff
- Lawyers
- Parties
- Witnesses
That's pretty much it. Occasionally, a law student, newly minted lawyer, or paralegal student will be observing cases as part of a class assignment or bar requirement to practice.
Think Before You File
Sometimes it is good to take a deep breath before you go barging ahead in your case. I recently defended a Rule to Show Cause (contempt) hearing for a client filed by his wife. It appeared that she filed it as a retaliation for a letter that I mailed to her on behalf of my client. There were some pretty nasty allegations of contempt in the papers and my client was worried although he believed he had done nothing wrong. Just so you know, a rule to show cause hearing is what a person files to enforce a previous court order. If someone has not done what they were ordered to do by the court and they are found to have willfully disobeyed that order they can be punished by jail time up to one year, fines up to $1,500.00 and up to 300 hours of community service (or any combination of the three). This is serious!As we walked into the courtroom, my client's ex-wife appeared cocky and arrogant. She sought the contempt and attorney fees. However, she did not have a strong case. She let emotion and anger rule her rather than common sense. She did not tell the whole story to her attorney who was not ready for our defense. The rule to show cause was dismissed, and to add insult to injury for the ex-wife, she was ordered to pay for my client's attorney fees for defending the matter.So, next time you feel like you've been done wrong and you're ready to bring the shock and awe, take a step back, honestly consult with your lawyer and make a plan, but don't forget to look at the big picture and don't forget that anything can happen in the courtroom and quickly things can get turned around on you.
Solo Lawyer Working Out of the Office
Recently, I opened my own law practice here in Greenville, South Carolina. Right now, I am the only person working in the firm so I act as attorney, paralegal, boss, assistant, accounts payable, and everything in between. I have been extremely busy, and I have had some thoughts that perhaps some prospective clients may have some concerns about the type of attention that is paid to their case.I thought a real-life story would help in explaining how things are going so far. Several months ago, long before I opened this law practice, my wife and I planned a trip to Chicago to meet some friends and celebrate a friend's 30th birthday. We took in a couple of Cubs' games at Wrigley Field. We left on Thursday morning and planned to return to Greenville on Sunday. This meant that I would be out of my office for two days. In a family law practice, a lot can happen over two days and I was a little nervous.When I set up my practice, technology and the ability to practice from anywhere were high priorities for me. So I have set up systems, software, and utilize technology to allow me to do this. Some technology is as simple has having my iPhone, others things I use is Google Voice for telephone and voicemail, Google Apps for calendaring and e-mail, and Dropbox for storing documents and syncing between my computers.During the weekend, I was able to use Google Voice to route all of my incoming office calls to my iPhone. If I was in a place that would provide necessary confidentiality (like my hotel room) I would take the call. If I was unable to take the call, the voicemail would then be transcribed and e-mailed to me so I could immediately have access to the message. If it was very urgent, I could make arrangements to respond quickly. While sitting at the Friday afternoon Cubs' game, I received a voicemail from a client related to a custody/visitation matter. About the same time as her call, I received an e-mail with a fax message from the opposing counsel on that case. I was able to find a quiet corner of the stadium to call my client back to get an idea of what was going on. Then, I was able to send a fax back to opposing counsel - all from my iPhone in the upper deck at Wrigley Field.So, I hope this story will show you that my law practice is more personal and the way that I have carefully set it up will allow me to serve all of my clients effectively and promptly even though I may not perform all of my work behind the desk of my downtown office.
Top UpstateFamilyLawBlog.com Posts for April 2010
Here are the top posts from April 2010.
- What Happens if DSS Takes Your Children
- Be Careful with Facebook During Your Divorce or Child Custody Case
- Timing of a South Carolina Divorce Case
- Do You Have to Be Separated for More than 1 Year to get a Divorce in South Carolina?
- 5 Tips to Help with your Child Custody Dispute
- I'm Separated from my Spouse - Can I Date?
- Proving You've Been Separated for more than 1 Year
- How Long Does an Uncontested Divorce Take in South Carolina?
- Can a Child Decide Where He Can Live?
- "Legal" Separation for SC No Fault Divorce
Firm Announcement: Atkins Law Firm, P.A.
Tripp Atkins is excited to announce the opening of the Atkins Law Firm, P.A. Effective May 1, 2010, the Atkins Law Firm, P.A. will be providing divorce, family law, and probate administration and litigation services in upstate South Carolina. We are doing everything possible to minimize the transition between the former firm and Tripp's new firm. You can contact the Atkins Law Firm, P.A. the following ways:
- Physical Address: 11 N. Irvine Street, Suite 14, Greenville, South Carolina 29601
- Mail: PO Box 27167, Greenville, SC 29616
- E-mail: Tripp@AtkinsSC.com
- Telephone: 864-735-8699
- Fax: 864-349-5054
- Get Directions to our new office here
Infidelity Stats: 20% of Men and 10% of Women
Came across this infidelity infographic on the Fast Company website this afternoon in an article about Tiger Woods. Interesting...One interesting stat on this infographic is that 90% of people who have had online affairs get addicted to them and begin another immediately after the current one ends. With the advent of Facebook and other networking sites, it is easier and easier to "hook up" online these days. While an online affair may not be enough to lead to a divorce on adultery grounds in South Carolina, the nature of this activity is such that it is a slippery slope that leads to adultery.
Via: OnlineSchools.org
What Happens After my Temporary Hearing?
A temporary hearing in a divorce case can set the tone for the rest of the matter. It is probably good to note right here that the decision made by a judge at a temporary hearing is temporary in nature (hence the name) and it carries no weight as far as what the trial judge may or may not rule on. Therefore, if you are ruled against at the temporary hearing it isn't the end of the world. However, when a judge rules for or against a person at a temporary hearing it seems to give each party some false sense of power or weakness in the case.After your temporary hearing a temporary order will be prepared and signed by the judge and that sets the standard of conduct for the remainder of the litigation. Generally, in this period between the temporary hearing and the final hearing the parties will engage in discovery, potentially take depositions of key witnesses, mediate the case, and attempt to reach a negotiated settlement. If there are minor children involved, a guardian ad litem will be appointed who will perform an investigation into the issues surrounding the minor children.This process can take several months. Often, depending on the complexity of the case, it can last over a year. The final phase before the final hearing is the trial preparation phase where you and your lawyer will be preparing for trial by meeting with witnesses, preparing any necessary witness subpoenas, creating trial exhibits, etc. All of this leads up to the final hearing in your case.
Family Court Mediation is Confidential
Mediation is required for all contested family court cases in Greenville County and in many other South Carolina counties. One of the concerns that I hear as a mediator and as a lawyer who attends mediation with his clients is that clients are concerned with what they are saying to a third-party lawyer (the mediator) or the kinds of offers or counter-offers that are being made and how that might come back to haunt them down the road should their case not settle.In South Carolina, all family court mediations are confidential on several levels. First, when you communicate something to your mediator, you can specify that you do not wish for the mediator to share that with the opposing party. Second, everything you discuss in mediation is confidential so that if you and your spouse do not settle the case at mediation, you do not have to worry about them bringing up what you offered in trial. The mediator cannot be called to testify about the mediation and his notes cannot be subpoenaed.This confidentiality gives you a "free bite at the apple" so to speak. You have an opportunity to be creative with your spouse to resolve the contested issues in your case. You may make some offers that you ordinarily would not in an effort to settle the case without fear that they could be used against you later on.